Ask other couples and families about what they do! Experiment and have fun with it! Christianity is a journey and an adventure. There is one Way to Salvation in Christ, but our journeys vary. As our families differ, so will our worship needs. But we all need worship. So the old saying continues to ring true; The family that prays together, stays together.
Don’t starve yourself and die! Have your daily spiritual meals with Jesus and grow strong and well-nourished in Him. Then, and only then, can we gain all things, especially eternal life!